How Do We Empathize?

Our brains house a “Mirror neuron system” that is engaged when we observe actions. It internally “mirrors” observed actions and helps to understand them, thus generating empathy.

We use empathy in our day-to-day lives when we come across the experiences of others – good or bad. We feel happy when we hear happy stories, and tear up when hearing sad ones.


Humans are innately empathetic creatures (Photo Credit : twenty20)

Humans are innately empathetic creatures. We show signs of empathy just a few days into coming to this world; human babies can empathize with others and cry when they hear another newborn cry, but how exactly do we experience emotions when they’re not ours to begin with?

Recommended Video for you:

If you wish to buy/license this video, please write to us at

What is empathy and why is it important?

Psychology describes empathy as the “natural capacity to share, understand, and respond with care to the affective states of others”.

Although seemingly unimportant at first glance, empathy is a crucial skill that helps us socialize and communicate with other humans. It helps us understand the actions of others and the reasons behind their actions. Empathy evolved to promote cooperative behavior between individuals and can help to create bonding.


Young family with children having fun in nature(Lucky Business)s

Empathy helps us bond with others in society (Photo Credit : Lucky Business/Shutterstock)

Studying individuals with an empathy deficit, such as those with psychopathic personalities, have helped us understand that the lack of empathy can lead to a reduced understanding of morality and aggressive behavior, thus making a person antisocial.

The mechanism of empathy

Research on empathy suggests that there are three components to empathy. The first is the perception of the emotions of another person and sharing the emotions, otherwise called ‘emotional contagion’. The second is the cognitive aspect of empathy, called “Theory of Mind” which helps us take the perspective of another person. This component helps us ‘place ourselves in someone else’s shoes’. The third component consists of mechanisms that help us feel sympathy for another person through understanding their experience. These together help us empathize and share the emotions of another person.

Theory of Mind

The first affective component develops early in humans and is present even in babies. The second component – Theory of Mind (ToM), develops around 3-4 years of age. Individuals who lack ToM, such as those with Autism, show deficits in perspective-taking. The importance of ToM in our normal social functioning becomes clear when typical and autistic children are tested on a simple task—called the Sally Anne test.



Sally Anne test in the French language used for testing Theory of Mind (Photo Credit : Yuval/Wikimedia commons)

In this test, each child is shown two dolls – Sally and Anne and given a scenario. Sally has a basket and Anne has a box. Sally puts a marble in the basket and leaves the room. In the meantime, Anne takes the marble and hides it in the box. Sally returns to the room. A typically developing child knows that Sally, who was briefly absent, will look for the marble in the basket. While this may look deceptively easy, an autistic child is unable to switch perspectives and therefore usually answers that the marble is in the box. Such deficits have a deep impact on our ability to interpret and understand social situations in our daily lives.

Neuroscience of empathy

Scientists claim that our ability to empathize comes from a “mirror neuron system” in the brain. Originally a part of our sensorimotor system and activated when we perform actions, mirror neurons also become active when we observe the same action performed by others. In a way, this system helps us internally “mirror” the actions of another person and better understand them.


Mirror neurons vector illustration

Mirror neurons in the brain become active when we observe actions of others or perform them ourselves (Photo Credit : VectorMine/Shutterstock)

Studies were conducted in which mirror neuron function was disrupted using brief external magnetic stimulation – called TMS (transcranial magnetic stimulation). Disrupting this network, located in regions such as the insula and cingulate cortex, led to problems in recognizing emotions. Similar findings were observed in studies on patients with lesions in these brain regions.

Furthermore, recent brain imaging studies demonstrate that our brains show comparable responses when we experience pain ourselves versus when we observe pain being inflicted on others. Together, these findings show that our brains respond by generating empathy when we indirectly observe actions by “mirroring” them internally using the mirror neuron system. Thus, although these actual events are not experienced by us, it is almost as if we ‘feel’ these experiences as our own.

Dysfunctions of empathy

There is a broad range of disorders that result from the dysfunction of empathy skills. A deficit in the Theory of Mind component is seen in individuals with autism spectrum disorders. This only makes them unable to switch perspectives, but they can still experience and display empathy for others.

On the other hand, psychopathic personality disorders cause a deficit in the affective component of empathy. This means that such individuals do not have automatic emotional reactions to the experiences of others, making it difficult to feel sympathy or understand morality. Studies on such disorders provide a window into how disruptive a lack of empathy can be in our day-to-day lives.

A Final Word

Humans are inherently social beings, and empathy has a vital role to play in why this is so. Apart from helping to make us more prosocial and moral beings, empathy is important in helping us understand the intentions and actions of others. It helps us function as a unit in society.

The human brain bestows upon us the ability to share experiences with other beings, and glance briefly into their minds, which is nothing short of magic. Empathy is truly a superpower!

Suggested Reading

Was this article helpful?
Help us make this article better
Scientific discovery can be unexpected and full of chance surprises. Take your own here and learn something new and perhaps surprising!

Follow ScienceABC on Social Media:

About the Author

Dr. Sarika Cherodath holds a Ph.D. in Neuroscience from National Brain Research Centre, India, and has expertise in Cognitive Neuroscience. She has a deep appetite for all things Biology and is passionate about taking knowledge from science to the masses, to improve day-to-day lives. She loves exploring new languages, music, and culture, and picking up new life skills.

Science ABC YouTube Videos

  1. Neutron Stars Explained in Simple Words for LaymenNeutron Stars Explained in Simple Words for Laymen
  2. How Robert J. Oppenheimer became the ‘Father of the Atomic Bomb’How Robert J. Oppenheimer became the ‘Father of the Atomic Bomb’
  3. Higgs Boson (The God Particle) and Higgs Field Explained in Simple WordsHiggs Boson (The God Particle) and Higgs Field Explained in Simple Words
  4. Slowing or Reversing Aging: Can We Live for 180 years?Slowing or Reversing Aging: Can We Live for 180 years?
  5. Detectives Use this Simple Technique to Find Your Fingerprints (Even AFTER You Have Wiped Them Off)!Detectives Use this Simple Technique to Find Your Fingerprints (Even AFTER You Have Wiped Them Off)!
  6. Why is a Circle 360 Degrees, Why Not a Simpler Number, like 100?Why is a Circle 360 Degrees, Why Not a Simpler Number, like 100?
  7. Quantum Mechanics Explained in Ridiculously Simple WordsQuantum Mechanics Explained in Ridiculously Simple Words
  8. Do Fish Get Thirsty and Do They Need to Drink Water?Do Fish Get Thirsty and Do They Need to Drink Water?